{"id":3677,"date":"2026-10-09T01:53:40","date_gmt":"2026-10-08T20:53:40","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/101insurance.ca\/?p=3677"},"modified":"2026-10-14T03:11:06","modified_gmt":"2026-10-13T22:11:06","slug":"nhung-bai-hoc-tu-ly-hon-tai-alberta","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/101insurance.ca\/vi\/nhung-bai-hoc-tu-ly-hon-tai-alberta\/","title":{"rendered":"Nh\u1eefng b\u00e0i h\u1ecdc qu\u00fd gi\u00e1 t\u00f4i h\u1ecdc \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u1eeb qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh ly h\u00f4n t\u1ea1i Alberta, Canada"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full\"><img fetchpriority=\"high\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1254\" height=\"1254\" src=\"https:\/\/101insurance.ca\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/10\/Bai-hoc-tu-ly-hon-resize.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-3678\"\/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Trong nh\u1eefng b\u00e0i vi\u1ebft tr\u01b0\u1edbc, m\u00ecnh c\u00f3 chia s\u1ebb v\u1ec1 quy tr\u00ecnh y\u00eau c\u1ea7u child support order. Ban \u0111\u1ea7u m\u00ecnh d\u1ef1 t\u00ednh vi\u1ebft ti\u1ebfp c\u00e1c b\u01b0\u1edbc sau, nh\u01b0ng cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng m\u00ecnh v\u00e0 ba c\u1ee7a c\u00e1c con \u0111\u00e3 \u0111i \u0111\u1ebfn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u1ecfa thu\u1eadn th\u00f4ng qua qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh trao \u0111\u1ed5i gi\u1eefa hai b\u00ean lu\u1eadt s\u01b0, n\u00ean m\u00ecnh kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 th\u00eam tr\u1ea3i nghi\u1ec7m v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng b\u01b0\u1edbc ti\u1ebfp theo \u0111\u1ec3 k\u1ec3.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Thay v\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3, h\u00f4m nay m\u00ecnh mu\u1ed1n chia s\u1ebb nh\u1eefng b\u00e0i h\u1ecdc m\u00ecnh r\u00fat ra trong su\u1ed1t qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh n\u00e0y. C\u00f3 nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u tr\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u00e2y m\u00ecnh ngh\u0129 kh\u00e1 \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n, nh\u01b0ng khi tr\u1ea3i qua r\u1ed3i m\u1edbi th\u1ea5y c\u00f2n nhi\u1ec1u th\u1ee9 c\u1ea7n t\u00ecm hi\u1ec3u v\u00e0 c\u00e2n nh\u1eafc.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 tr\u1ea3i nghi\u1ec7m c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh t\u1ea1i Alberta, kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u1eddi khuy\u00ean ph\u00e1p l\u00fd. M\u1ed7i gia \u0111\u00ecnh c\u00f3 ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh kh\u00e1c nhau, n\u00ean n\u1ebfu g\u1eb7p v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 t\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u1ef1, c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n h\u00e3y trao \u0111\u1ed5i v\u1edbi lu\u1eadt s\u01b0 v\u1ec1 tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p c\u1ee5 th\u1ec3 c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh nh\u00e9.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">1. Ph\u00e2n chia t\u00e0i s\u1ea3n: c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u th\u1ee9 h\u01a1n m\u00ecnh t\u01b0\u1edfng<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u0110\u00e2y c\u00f3 l\u1ebd l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t trong nh\u1eefng ph\u1ea7n khi\u1ebfn m\u00ecnh m\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u th\u1eddi gian v\u00e0 c\u00f4ng s\u1ee9c nh\u1ea5t.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ban \u0111\u1ea7u m\u00ecnh ngh\u0129 t\u00e0i s\u1ea3n c\u1ee7a hai b\u00ean kh\u00f4ng qu\u00e1 nhi\u1ec1u, ch\u1eafc vi\u1ec7c ph\u00e2n chia c\u0169ng s\u1ebd t\u01b0\u01a1ng \u0111\u1ed1i \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n. Nh\u01b0ng cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng, qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh \u0111i \u0111\u1ebfn th\u1ecfa thu\u1eadn v\u1eabn k\u00e9o d\u00e0i g\u1ea7n m\u1ed9t n\u0103m. Kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 v\u00ec gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb t\u00e0i s\u1ea3n, m\u00e0 c\u00f2n v\u00ec c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u chi ti\u1ebft c\u1ea7n l\u00e0m r\u00f5 v\u00e0 m\u1ed7i b\u00ean c\u00f3 c\u00e1ch nh\u00ecn kh\u00e1c nhau.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">a. T\u00e0i s\u1ea3n tr\u01b0\u1edbc h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Tr\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u00e2y, m\u00ecnh t\u1eebng ngh\u0129 t\u00e0i s\u1ea3n c\u00f3 tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi k\u1ebft h\u00f4n, \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t l\u00e0 t\u00e0i s\u1ea3n \u1edf Vi\u1ec7t Nam, s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng li\u00ean quan \u0111\u1ebfn vi\u1ec7c ly h\u00f4n t\u1ea1i Canada. Sau n\u00e0y t\u00ecm hi\u1ec3u, m\u00ecnh m\u1edbi bi\u1ebft kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean m\u1eb7c \u0111\u1ecbnh nh\u01b0 v\u1eady.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">V\u00ed d\u1ee5, m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 c\u0103n nh\u00e0 \u1edf Vi\u1ec7t Nam tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi k\u1ebft h\u00f4n, tr\u1ecb gi\u00e1 kho\u1ea3ng 2 t\u1ef7 \u0111\u1ed3ng t\u1ea1i th\u1eddi \u0111i\u1ec3m k\u1ebft h\u00f4n. \u0110\u1ebfn l\u00fac ly h\u00f4n, c\u0103n nh\u00e0 c\u00f3 gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb 7 t\u1ef7 \u0111\u1ed3ng. Khi \u0111\u00f3, ph\u1ea7n t\u0103ng gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb 5 t\u1ef7 \u0111\u1ed3ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 c\u1ea7n xem x\u00e9t trong qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh ph\u00e2n chia t\u00e0i s\u1ea3n t\u1ea1i Alberta.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Tuy nhi\u00ean, kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 ph\u1ea7n ch\u00eanh l\u1ec7ch \u0111\u00f3 m\u1eb7c nhi\u00ean ph\u1ea3i chia \u0111\u00f4i. C\u00e1ch x\u1eed l\u00fd c\u00f2n ph\u1ee5 thu\u1ed9c v\u00e0o ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh c\u1ee5 th\u1ec3, gi\u1ea5y t\u1edd ch\u1ee9ng minh, th\u1ecfa thu\u1eadn gi\u1eefa hai b\u00ean v\u00e0 c\u00e1c y\u1ebfu t\u1ed1 ph\u00e1p l\u00fd li\u00ean quan.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Tr\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u00e2y m\u00ecnh kh\u00f4ng ngh\u0129 t\u1edbi chuy\u1ec7n n\u00e0y, n\u00ean m\u00ecnh mu\u1ed1n nh\u1eafc c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n: <strong>n\u1ebfu c\u00f3 t\u00e0i s\u1ea3n tr\u01b0\u1edbc h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n, t\u00e0i s\u1ea3n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u1eb7ng cho ho\u1eb7c th\u1eeba k\u1ebf, d\u00f9 \u1edf Canada hay \u1edf n\u01b0\u1edbc ngo\u00e0i, h\u00e3y ch\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ed9ng h\u1ecfi lu\u1eadt s\u01b0 c\u00e1ch nh\u1eefng t\u00e0i s\u1ea3n \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c xem x\u00e9t trong tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ph\u1ea7n gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb ban \u0111\u1ea7u, ph\u1ea7n t\u0103ng gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb, ngu\u1ed3n ti\u1ec1n v\u00e0 gi\u1ea5y t\u1edd ch\u1ee9ng minh c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng chi ti\u1ebft quan tr\u1ecdng. M\u00ecnh kh\u00f4ng \u0111i s\u00e2u v\u00e0o c\u00e1ch ph\u00e2n chia \u1edf \u0111\u00e2y, v\u00ec c\u00f2n ph\u1ee5 thu\u1ed9c v\u00e0o lu\u1eadt \u00e1p d\u1ee5ng v\u00e0 ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh c\u1ee5 th\u1ec3.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">b. Nh\u1eefng t\u00e0i s\u1ea3n v\u00e0 kho\u1ea3n n\u1ee3 d\u1ec5 b\u1ecb b\u1ecf s\u00f3t<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ngo\u00e0i nh\u1eefng th\u1ee9 d\u1ec5 nh\u00ecn th\u1ea5y nh\u01b0 nh\u00e0, xe, t\u00e0i kho\u1ea3n ng\u00e2n h\u00e0ng hay ti\u1ec1n ti\u1ebft ki\u1ec7m, c\u00f2n nhi\u1ec1u kho\u1ea3n m\u00ecnh ch\u01b0a t\u1eebng ngh\u0129 t\u1edbi tr\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u00f3, ch\u1eb3ng h\u1ea1n:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Group RRSP v\u00e0 c\u00e1c kho\u1ea3n ti\u1ebft ki\u1ec7m h\u01b0u tr\u00ed.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Pension plan.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Quy\u1ec1n l\u1ee3i CPP c\u1ea7n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u00ecm hi\u1ec3u ri\u00eang khi ly th\u00e2n ho\u1eb7c ly h\u00f4n.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>C\u00e1c kho\u1ea3n profit-sharing ho\u1eb7c quy\u1ec1n l\u1ee3i t\u00e0i ch\u00ednh t\u1eeb c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>H\u1ee3p \u0111\u1ed3ng b\u1ea3o hi\u1ec3m nh\u00e2n th\u1ecd c\u00f3 gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb ti\u1ec1n m\u1eb7t.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>C\u00e1c kho\u1ea3n n\u1ee3 v\u00e0 ngh\u0129a v\u1ee5 t\u00e0i ch\u00ednh.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i kho\u1ea3n n\u00e0o c\u0169ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c x\u1eed l\u00fd theo c\u00f9ng m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch. Nh\u01b0ng n\u1ebfu m\u00ecnh kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft ch\u00fang t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i, m\u00ecnh c\u0169ng s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft c\u1ea7n \u0111\u1eb7t c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi g\u00ec.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Qua tr\u1ea3i nghi\u1ec7m n\u00e0y, m\u00ecnh nh\u1eadn ra <strong>lu\u1eadt s\u01b0 c\u00f3 vai tr\u00f2 h\u01b0\u1edbng d\u1eabn, c\u00f2n b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n m\u00ecnh c\u0169ng c\u1ea7n ch\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ed9ng cung c\u1ea5p th\u00f4ng tin v\u00e0 h\u1ecfi v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u ch\u01b0a r\u00f5.<\/strong> Ng\u01b0\u1eddi hi\u1ec3u sinh ho\u1ea1t t\u00e0i ch\u00ednh c\u1ee7a gia \u0111\u00ecnh m\u00ecnh nh\u1ea5t th\u01b0\u1eddng v\u1eabn l\u00e0 m\u00ecnh.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u0110\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng b\u1ea1n \u00edt tham gia qu\u1ea3n l\u00fd t\u00e0i ch\u00ednh trong nh\u00e0, vi\u1ec7c l\u1eadp m\u1ed9t danh s\u00e1ch t\u00e0i s\u1ea3n, kho\u1ea3n n\u1ee3 v\u00e0 c\u00e1c quy\u1ec1n l\u1ee3i t\u1eeb c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c c\u1ee7a c\u1ea3 hai b\u00ean s\u1ebd r\u1ea5t h\u1eefu \u00edch.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">c. Gi\u1eef l\u1ea1i c\u0103n nh\u00e0 c\u0169ng c\u1ea7n nh\u00ecn xa h\u01a1n<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">N\u1ebfu m\u1ed9t b\u00ean mu\u1ed1n gi\u1eef l\u1ea1i nh\u00e0 v\u00e0 mua l\u1ea1i ph\u1ea7n s\u1edf h\u1eefu c\u1ee7a b\u00ean kia, m\u00ecnh ngh\u0129 n\u00ean c\u00e2n nh\u1eafc c\u1ea3 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng chi tr\u1ea3 sau \u0111\u00f3.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ngo\u00e0i kho\u1ea3n ti\u1ec1n mua l\u1ea1i v\u00e0 mortgage, c\u00f2n c\u00f3 chi ph\u00ed b\u1ea3o tr\u00ec, s\u1eeda ch\u1eefa, condo fee n\u1ebfu c\u00f3, v\u00e0 c\u00e1c kho\u1ea3n ph\u00ed khi b\u00e1n nh\u00e0 trong t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i chi ph\u00ed n\u00e0o c\u0169ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c kh\u1ea5u tr\u1eeb khi t\u00ednh gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb ph\u00e2n chia. Nh\u01b0ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi gi\u1eef l\u1ea1i nh\u00e0 n\u00ean hi\u1ec3u r\u00f5 nh\u1eefng kho\u1ea3n m\u00ecnh c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ph\u1ea3i g\u00e1nh, \u0111\u1ec3 quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh ph\u00f9 h\u1ee3p v\u1edbi t\u00e0i ch\u00ednh l\u00e2u d\u00e0i.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 ph\u1ea7n m\u00ecnh \u0111\u00e3 c\u00e2n nh\u1eafc v\u00e0 ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 \u0111\u00e1nh \u0111\u1ed5i. Sau c\u00f9ng, \u0111i\u1ec1u quan tr\u1ecdng l\u00e0 m\u00ecnh hi\u1ec3u quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f3 \u00fd ngh\u0129a g\u00ec v\u1edbi cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh v\u00e0 c\u00e1c con.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">2. L\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn lu\u1eadt s\u01b0: \u0111\u1eebng ch\u1ec9 nh\u00ecn v\u00e0o m\u1ee9c ph\u00ed<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Do t\u00e0i ch\u00ednh c\u00f3 gi\u1edbi h\u1ea1n, l\u00fac \u0111\u1ea7u m\u00ecnh t\u1eadp trung kh\u00e1 nhi\u1ec1u v\u00e0o chi ph\u00ed v\u00e0 ch\u01b0a d\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ee7 th\u1eddi gian t\u00ecm hi\u1ec3u c\u00e1c l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Sau n\u00e0y, m\u00ecnh nh\u1eadn ra ngo\u00e0i m\u1ee9c ph\u00ed, c\u00f2n c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u r\u1ea5t quan tr\u1ecdng: kinh nghi\u1ec7m v\u1edbi ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh t\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u1ef1, c\u00e1ch gi\u1ea3i th\u00edch v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1, m\u1ee9c \u0111\u1ed9 trao \u0111\u1ed5i th\u00f4ng tin v\u00e0 c\u00e1ch l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c c\u00f3 ph\u00f9 h\u1ee3p v\u1edbi m\u00ecnh hay kh\u00f4ng.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Trong qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh \u0111\u00f3, c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng l\u00fac m\u00ecnh c\u1ea7n s\u1ef1 h\u01b0\u1edbng d\u1eabn c\u1ee5 th\u1ec3 h\u01a1n, nh\u01b0ng l\u1ea1i ch\u01b0a bi\u1ebft c\u00e1ch n\u00f3i r\u00f5 mong mu\u1ed1n c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. M\u00ecnh c\u0169ng d\u00e0nh kh\u00e1 nhi\u1ec1u th\u1eddi gian t\u1ef1 t\u00ecm hi\u1ec3u \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u1eb7t c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi v\u00e0 tham gia v\u00e0o c\u00e1c quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">N\u1ebfu \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u00e0m l\u1ea1i, m\u00ecnh s\u1ebd h\u1ecfi ngay t\u1eeb \u0111\u1ea7u:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Lu\u1eadt s\u01b0 c\u00f3 kinh nghi\u1ec7m v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p t\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u1ef1 kh\u00f4ng?<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Nh\u1eefng v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 n\u00e0o c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ph\u00e1t sinh v\u00e0 c\u1ea7n chu\u1ea9n b\u1ecb gi\u1ea5y t\u1edd g\u00ec?<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Ph\u1ea7n n\u00e0o lu\u1eadt s\u01b0 s\u1ebd th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n, ph\u1ea7n n\u00e0o m\u00ecnh c\u1ea7n ch\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ed9ng?<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Hai b\u00ean s\u1ebd trao \u0111\u1ed5i v\u00e0 c\u1eadp nh\u1eadt ti\u1ebfn \u0111\u1ed9 nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o?<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Chi ph\u00ed d\u1ef1 ki\u1ebfn v\u00e0 c\u00e1c ph\u01b0\u01a1ng \u00e1n gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft l\u00e0 g\u00ec?<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">M\u00ecnh t\u1eebng ngh\u0129 tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh kh\u00e1 \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n n\u00ean l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn lu\u1eadt s\u01b0 n\u00e0o ch\u1eafc c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng kh\u00e1c nhau nhi\u1ec1u. Nh\u01b0ng ngay c\u1ea3 khi hai b\u00ean \u0111\u1ec1u mu\u1ed1n gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft \u1ed5n th\u1ecfa, v\u1eabn c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 xu\u1ea5t hi\u1ec7n nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec3m ch\u01b0a th\u1ed1ng nh\u1ea5t.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">V\u00ec v\u1eady, l\u1eddi khuy\u00ean t\u1eeb tr\u1ea3i nghi\u1ec7m c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh l\u00e0: <strong>h\u00e3y t\u00ecm hi\u1ec3u k\u1ef9 v\u00e0 ch\u1ecdn m\u1ed9t lu\u1eadt s\u01b0 m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 trao \u0111\u1ed5i th\u1eb3ng th\u1eafn, hi\u1ec3u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1eddi gi\u1ea3i th\u00edch c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd v\u00e0 c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y ph\u00f9 h\u1ee3p v\u1edbi c\u00e1ch l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">N\u1ebfu c\u00f3 \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec ch\u01b0a r\u00f5 ho\u1eb7c ch\u01b0a \u0111\u00e1p \u1ee9ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nhu c\u1ea7u, h\u00e3y n\u00f3i s\u1edbm. \u0110i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 gi\u00fap c\u1ea3 hai b\u00ean ph\u1ed1i h\u1ee3p t\u1ed1t h\u01a1n v\u00e0 gi\u1ea3m b\u1edbt \u00e1p l\u1ef1c v\u1ec1 sau.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">3. Tinh th\u1ea7n c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh v\u00e0 c\u1ea3m x\u00fac c\u1ee7a c\u00e1c con<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Trong qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh l\u00e0m th\u1ee7 t\u1ee5c, m\u00ecnh \u0111\u00e3 h\u1ecdc kh\u00f3a <strong>Parenting After Separation (PAS)<\/strong> c\u1ee7a Alberta. Nh\u01b0ng ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u1ebfn khi th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 \u0111i qua giai \u0111o\u1ea1n n\u00e0y, m\u00ecnh m\u1edbi c\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn r\u00f5 nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eafc \u0111\u1ebfn trong kh\u00f3a h\u1ecdc.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ban \u0111\u1ea7u, m\u00ecnh ngh\u0129 m\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ee7 m\u1ea1nh m\u1ebd \u0111\u1ec3 v\u1eeba lo th\u1ee7 t\u1ee5c, v\u1eeba b\u1ea3o v\u1ec7 quy\u1ec1n l\u1ee3i c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh v\u00e0 c\u00e1c con, v\u1eeba gi\u1eef nh\u1ecbp s\u1ed1ng b\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u1eddng.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Nh\u01b0ng sau m\u1ed9t th\u1eddi gian, m\u00ecnh b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u ki\u1ec7t s\u1ee9c. C\u00f9ng l\u00fac ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u1ed1i di\u1ec7n v\u1edbi thay \u0111\u1ed5i trong gia \u0111\u00ecnh, nh\u1eefng quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh t\u00e0i ch\u00ednh v\u00e0 tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m ch\u0103m s\u00f3c con khi\u1ebfn tinh th\u1ea7n m\u00ecnh b\u1ecb \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n m\u00ecnh t\u01b0\u1edfng. M\u00ecnh \u0111\u00e3 c\u1ea7n \u0111\u1ebfn s\u1ef1 h\u1ed7 tr\u1ee3 chuy\u00ean m\u00f4n \u0111\u1ec3 ch\u0103m s\u00f3c l\u1ea1i s\u1ee9c kh\u1ecfe tinh th\u1ea7n.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">M\u00ecnh c\u0169ng nh\u1eadn ra c\u00e1c con r\u1ea5t nh\u1ea1y c\u1ea3m. D\u00f9 ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng gi\u1eef nh\u1eefng chuy\u1ec7n kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n \u1edf b\u00ean ngo\u00e0i, con v\u1eabn c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ef1 m\u1ec7t m\u1ecfi, lo l\u1eafng v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng thay \u0111\u1ed5i trong sinh ho\u1ea1t h\u1eb1ng ng\u00e0y.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y khi\u1ebfn m\u00ecnh h\u1ecdc c\u00e1ch c\u00e2n nh\u1eafc k\u1ef9 h\u01a1n: v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 n\u00e0o th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 c\u1ea7n ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c l\u00e0m r\u00f5, v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 n\u00e0o c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 linh ho\u1ea1t, v\u00e0 m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed9c trao \u0111\u1ed5i k\u00e9o d\u00e0i s\u1ebd l\u1ea5y \u0111i bao nhi\u00eau th\u1eddi gian, s\u1ee9c l\u1ef1c c\u1ee7a c\u1ea3 gia \u0111\u00ecnh.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>B\u1ea3o v\u1ec7 quy\u1ec1n l\u1ee3i l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft. Ch\u0103m s\u00f3c s\u1ee9c kh\u1ecfe tinh th\u1ea7n v\u00e0 gi\u1eef s\u1ef1 \u1ed5n \u0111\u1ecbnh cho c\u00e1c con c\u0169ng c\u1ea7n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u1eb7t v\u00e0o m\u1ed7i quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">M\u00ecnh d\u1ea7n hi\u1ec3u r\u1eb1ng ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn m\u1ed9t th\u1ecfa hi\u1ec7p ph\u00f9 h\u1ee3p kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 m\u00ecnh y\u1ebfu \u0111u\u1ed1i. \u0110\u00f4i khi, \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 c\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ec3 m\u00ecnh c\u00f3 th\u00eam s\u1ee9c l\u1ef1c ch\u0103m s\u00f3c con v\u00e0 b\u01b0\u1edbc ti\u1ebfp.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">M\u00ecnh c\u0169ng c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng nh\u1eafc b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n r\u1eb1ng, d\u00f9 quan h\u1ec7 v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng \u0111\u00e3 k\u1ebft th\u00fac, c\u1ea3 hai v\u1eabn l\u00e0 ba m\u1eb9 c\u1ee7a c\u00e1c con. Nh\u1eefng g\u00ec ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn n\u00f3i v\u00e0 l\u00e0m trong giai \u0111o\u1ea1n n\u00e0y c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng \u0111\u1ebfn c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c an to\u00e0n c\u1ee7a con r\u1ea5t l\u00e2u v\u1ec1 sau.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator has-alpha-channel-opacity\"\/>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Th\u1ef1c ra, nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u m\u00ecnh h\u1ecdc \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u00f2n nhi\u1ec1u l\u1eafm. Nh\u01b0ng n\u1ebfu ch\u1ecdn ra ba \u0111i\u1ec1u m\u00ecnh mu\u1ed1n chia s\u1ebb nh\u1ea5t, th\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0: t\u00ecm hi\u1ec3u k\u1ef9 v\u1ec1 t\u00e0i ch\u00ednh, l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn s\u1ef1 h\u1ed7 tr\u1ee3 ph\u00f9 h\u1ee3p v\u00e0 \u0111\u1eebng qu\u00ean ch\u0103m s\u00f3c tinh th\u1ea7n c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh c\u00f9ng c\u00e1c con.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">M\u00ecnh vi\u1ebft b\u00e0i n\u00e0y \u0111\u1ec3 chia s\u1ebb nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n \u01b0\u1edbc m\u00ecnh \u0111\u00e3 bi\u1ebft s\u1edbm h\u01a1n. Hy v\u1ecdng tr\u1ea3i nghi\u1ec7m c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 gi\u00fap b\u1ea1n b\u1edbt b\u1ee1 ng\u1ee1 n\u1ebfu c\u0169ng \u0111ang ph\u1ea3i \u0111i qua giai \u0111o\u1ea1n n\u00e0y.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">C\u00f3 nh\u1eefng ng\u00e0y s\u1ebd r\u1ea5t m\u1ec7t. B\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i t\u1ef1 m\u00ecnh bi\u1ebft h\u1ebft hay gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c h\u1ebft m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9. Khi c\u1ea7n, h\u00e3y t\u00ecm s\u1ef1 h\u1ed7 tr\u1ee3 v\u00e0 cho b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n m\u1ed9t ch\u00fat th\u1eddi gian \u0111\u1ec3 h\u1ed3i ph\u1ee5c. Mong b\u1ea1n t\u00ecm l\u1ea1i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c an y\u00ean sau m\u1ecdi gi\u00f4ng t\u1ed1!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Sarah Do.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Ly h\u00f4n t\u1ea1i Alberta khi\u1ebfn m\u00ecnh nh\u1eadn ra c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u \u0111i\u1ec1u ch\u1ec9 khi tr\u1ea3i qua m\u1edbi hi\u1ec3u: t\u1eeb nh\u1eefng t\u00e0i s\u1ea3n d\u1ec5 b\u1ecb b\u1ecf s\u00f3t, vi\u1ec7c l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn lu\u1eadt s\u01b0, \u0111\u1ebfn \u00e1p l\u1ef1c tinh th\u1ea7n l\u00ean c\u1ea3 m\u1eb9 v\u00e0 con. \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng b\u00e0i h\u1ecdc m\u00ecnh \u0111\u00fac k\u1ebft t\u1eeb tr\u1ea3i nghi\u1ec7m c\u1ee7a b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n, hy v\u1ecdng gi\u00fap b\u1ea1n b\u1edbt b\u1ee1 ng\u1ee1 n\u1ebfu \u0111ang \u0111i qua giai \u0111o\u1ea1n n\u00e0y.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":3678,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_eb_attr":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[31],"tags":[67,35,36,68],"class_list":["post-3677","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-cuoc-song-canada","tag-child-support-2","tag-cuoc-song-canada","tag-life-in-canada","tag-ly-hon-2"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/101insurance.ca\/vi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3677","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/101insurance.ca\/vi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/101insurance.ca\/vi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/101insurance.ca\/vi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/101insurance.ca\/vi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=3677"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/101insurance.ca\/vi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3677\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":3695,"href":"https:\/\/101insurance.ca\/vi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3677\/revisions\/3695"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/101insurance.ca\/vi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/3678"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/101insurance.ca\/vi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=3677"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/101insurance.ca\/vi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=3677"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/101insurance.ca\/vi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=3677"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}